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Flirty lines that sound like you, not like a pickup-line book. Use them in a real chat with a girl you like, your crush or your girlfriend. Pick one, change a word or two so it fits her, and send it.
Want cheesy jokes instead? Try our cute pickup lines or flirty pick up lines.
Flirty Openers to Start a Conversation
For the first text, or when the chat has gone quiet. Better than another "hey".
- I lost the who-texts-first game. Hi.
- Rate your day out of ten. I will try to raise the score.
- I need someone with good taste to approve my weekend plan. Interested?
- Be honest, are you as fun over text as you are in person?
- A puppy on my street had your exact energy today. Happy, loud, adorable.
- Fair warning: I am about to make this chat the best part of your day.
- You seem like someone with great music taste. Prove me right.
- I have a theory that you give the best advice. Want to test it?
- Describe your week in three emojis. I will guess the story.
- I am bored, and you are the only person I wanted to fix that.
- Tell me one thing about you that nobody guesses at first.
- I promised myself I would text you today. Keeping my promises.
- Settle a debate for me: pineapple on pizza, yes or no?
- I have been thinking about our last chat more than I should.
- Your story today made me want to know the full story.
- Your perfect lazy Sunday, start to finish. Go.
- Hi. That's it. I just wanted an excuse to talk to you.
- What are you pretending to do right now instead of what you should be doing?
Playful Teasing Lines
For when you already talk a bit and she can take a joke. Tease the small stuff, never her looks or her feelings.
- You reply so fast. Were you waiting for my text?
- I had a feeling you would be a problem. A fun one.
- I see you are typing. Take your time, I am clearly not nervous.
- You think you are funny, don't you? Okay, you are a little funny.
- Careful, if you keep being this nice I might start to like you.
- You have exactly one more chance to impress me. No pressure.
- Bold of you to send that emoji and then go offline.
- You talk a lot of big talk for someone who still has not beaten me at Ludo.
- Stop being so interesting. I had plans tonight.
- You are not my favourite person. You are my favourite notification. Big difference.
- Let me guess, you are the friend who takes ten selfies to post one.
- That joke was so bad I laughed twice. Tell me another.
- Be honest, you smiled before you even opened this.
- Does your charm have an off switch, or is this permanent?
- I will let you win this argument. Only because I like you.
- You owe me a coffee for that last message. I nearly spilled mine.
- My phone gets jealous of how much I smile at your texts.
- So you are smart, funny and kind. What is the catch?
Compliments She Will Remember
For a girl you really like. These notice who she is, not only how she looks. For a bigger list, see our compliments for girls.
- I like the way your voice changes when you talk about something you love.
- You have a way of making a normal conversation feel like an adventure.
- Most people listen to reply. You actually listen, and I notice it.
- You make ordinary people feel interesting just by asking them good questions.
- I like how you are kind even to people who will never know about it.
- You notice when someone in the room is left out, and you pull them in. I love that.
- You are confident without being loud about it. That is rare.
- Talking to you is easy. That almost never happens to me.
- I like the way you think. Your answers are never the boring ones.
- You remembered something I said weeks ago. Nobody does that.
- You make people feel taken care of without making a big deal of it.
- Your taste in everything, from books to snacks, is a little too good.
- There is something calm about you that makes my busy days feel smaller.
- I admire how hard you work, and how you never show off about it.
- You are even prettier when you are explaining something you are passionate about.
- You don't try to be like anyone else. That is exactly why you stand out.
- I learn something new every time we talk.
- You have the rare gift of making silence feel comfortable.
Flirty Good Morning Texts
For the first message of her day. Short, warm and a little cheeky.
- Good morning. I woke up and my first thought had your name in it.
- Rise and shine. Your favourite distraction is here.
- Morning! My coffee is strong today, but not as strong as my urge to text you.
- Good morning to the only notification I actually want.
- Good morning. Just checking that you remember I exist.
- Wake up, sleepyhead. The day is not interesting without you in it yet.
- Good morning. Today's forecast: sunny, with a high chance of me thinking about you.
- Morning! Did you dream about me or should I try harder?
- I hope your day is as lovely as your sleepy voice notes.
- Good morning. Go be amazing, and text me when you get a break.
- Fresh day, fresh start, same crush on you.
- Morning, beautiful. Don't forget to eat breakfast. I will be checking.
- Good morning. If today gets hard, remember someone is cheering for you.
- Waking up is easier when I know I will talk to you.
- Good morning! Tell me your plan for today so I can picture you in it.
Flirty Good Night Texts
For the last text before she sleeps. Leave her smiling.
- Good night. I am putting my phone down, but you are staying on my mind.
- Sleep well. I'll be the one who shows up in your dream with snacks.
- I could talk to you all night, but you need your beauty sleep. Not that you need it.
- Good night. I am going to sleep with a smile, and it's your fault.
- Before you sleep, just know you made my whole day better.
- Good night. Let's continue this exact conversation tomorrow, I am not done.
- Okay, one last text. Then another. Then good night, I promise.
- Sweet dreams. If you see me there, say hi.
- Good night. Our chat was the best thing I read today.
- Go to sleep before I keep you up talking till 3 am.
- Lights off, phone down, and one last thought about you.
- Good night. Tomorrow has to be good, because I get to talk to you.
- Sleep tight. I'll be the one smiling at my phone for no reason.
- I wish my good night could come with a hug. For now, take this text.
- Good night, trouble. Dream of something that makes you laugh.
Funny Flirty Things to Make Her Laugh
For when you want a laugh first. A girl who laughs with you wants to keep talking.
- I told my mom about you. She said, "Finally, someone who replies to your texts."
- I tried to focus on work today. My brain kept opening our chat instead.
- I am not good at flirting, so just imagine I said something really smooth.
- My sister asked who I was texting. I said "nobody" way too fast.
- I would let you pick the movie. Do you understand how big that is?
- I practised this text in my head four times and still made a typo.
- I tried to write you a poem. It rhymed "you" with "you". Still counts.
- Warning: I get very charming after my second cup of chai.
- I check my phone like a nervous security guard now. You know why.
- I have decided you are my favourite person. Nobody else got a vote.
- I would fight a cockroach for you. Maybe. From a distance.
- My screen time report says you are my most used app.
- I deleted three funny texts before this one. This was the best I had.
- My dog likes you, and he does not like anyone. So I trust his choice.
- You have officially distracted me from my exam, my work and my lunch.
- I wanted to send you a cute meme, but then I remembered you are the cute meme.
- If laughing at your jokes was a job, I would be employee of the month.
- Plot twist: I was not actually busy. I was just waiting for you to text.
Things to Say to Make Her Blush
For a girl who already likes talking to you. Honest and sweet, never crude.
- I can't stop smiling when I talk to you. It is getting embarrassing.
- You have no idea how much I look forward to your texts.
- I keep replaying the moment you laughed at my joke yesterday.
- You looked so happy in your story. That made my whole day.
- I like you. I just wanted to say it plainly once.
- Every time your name pops up, my heart does a small dance.
- I get a little shy when you look at me. Just so you know.
- I think about our last conversation more than I would admit in person.
- You are distractingly cute, and I am not even sorry for saying it.
- The best part of my day is usually a message from you.
- I didn't plan to like you this much. It just happened.
- When something funny happens, my hand opens our chat before I even think.
- You make me nervous in the best possible way.
- I hope you know you are someone's favourite person. Mine.
- My heart skipped when I saw your name just now.
- I read your messages twice. Sometimes three times.
- Send me a voice note. I just want to hear you talk.
- You make me want to be a little braver.
Things to Say to a Girl on a Date
For saying out loud when you are together. Say it with eye contact and a real smile.
- I have been looking forward to this all week.
- You look really nice tonight. I almost forgot what I was going to say.
- I like how easy it is to talk to you. Time goes too fast.
- Okay, your turn. What is your most random hidden talent?
- I am glad you said yes. I was half sure you would say no.
- Your smile is making me forget every story I planned to tell.
- I don't want this night to end yet. Want to take a walk?
- Let me guess your order. If I get it right, you owe me dessert.
- I think the waiter can tell I am trying very hard to impress you.
- I like you even more in person than over text, and that's saying something.
- Tell me about the thing you are most excited about right now.
- You choose the next place. I trust your taste completely.
- Can I be honest? This is the best date I have been on in a long time.
- You have a little sparkle in your eyes when you tease me. I noticed.
- Same time next week? I'm already booking you.
Flirty Texts to Send After a Date
For the text you send on your way home. This is where most people go quiet, so don't.
- Just got home and I'm still smiling. Thank you for tonight.
- I had a really good time. When can I see you again?
- I keep thinking about that moment you laughed at the waiter's joke.
- Tonight was way better than I imagined, and I imagined a lot.
- Did you get home safe? Also, I miss you already.
- Next time I am choosing the dessert, and you are not stealing half.
- I think I talked too much tonight. You were too easy to talk to.
- That was fun. Let's do it again before I start overthinking.
- Still thinking about our conversation on the walk back.
- Thank you for saying yes to tonight. I hope it's the first of many.
- You made a normal Saturday feel special.
- Ten minutes home and already planning our next date.
Flirty Things to Say to Your Girlfriend
For your girlfriend or wife. Long relationships need flirting too. For deeper lines, see our romantic messages for girlfriend.
- Even now, your name on my phone makes me sit up straight.
- You are cute when you are sleepy, and even cuter when you are hungry and grumpy.
- I know all your weird food combinations, and I still choose you.
- After all this time, you can still make me forget what I was saying.
- Doing nothing with you beats doing anything with anyone else.
- If I had to pick again from the whole world, I would still pick the girl who steals my fries.
- Can we skip everything today and just watch something together?
- You are the only person who can steal my blanket and still be forgiven.
- Fun fact: you look even better in my hoodie than I do.
- Every time you laugh at my dumb jokes, I fall for you a little more.
- I miss you, and you are literally in the next room.
- Thank you for liking me even when I look like a potato in the morning.
- I still want to impress you. I hope that never stops.
- You are my calm on bad days and my fun on good days.
- Let's pretend it's our first date tonight. I'll bring the nervous energy.
What to Say When She Texts You First
For the moments that leave you stuck. Her message, then what you can send back.
- When she sends a selfie: Okay, you can't just send that without a warning. My heart needs time.
- When she says she is bored: Lucky for you, I am excellent company. Ask anyone. Actually, don't ask anyone.
- When she says good morning first: You beat me to it. Now I owe you a good morning hug.
- When she says she misses you: Good, because I have been missing you since the last text.
- When she sends a song: I'm listening right now, and I'm thinking about why you picked this one.
- When she says she had a bad day: Tell me everything. I'm here, and I'm not going anywhere.
- When she says "I'm fine": That "fine" looked suspicious. Want to talk, or want a distraction?
- When she says she is busy: Go do your thing. I'll be here when you're free, a little impatient.
- When she compliments you: Careful, keep saying things like that and I'll never stop smiling.
- When she asks "what are you doing?": Waiting for exactly this message, honestly.
- When she sends "haha": That's a polite haha. I'll work harder for a real one.
- When she says good night: Good night. Text me the moment you wake up, I'll be waiting.
How to Flirt With a Girl Without Being Weird
A few simple rules that matter more than any line on this page.
- Read her replies. Long replies, questions back and emojis mean she is enjoying it. Short replies and long gaps mean slow down or stop.
- Make it about her. A line that mentions something she said or did lands better than any general compliment.
- Respect a no. If she says she is not interested, or does not reply, accept it kindly and move on. Never push.
- Don't overdo it. One flirty text in a normal conversation is charming. Ten in a row feels like pressure.
- Keep it clean. No comments about her body, no explicit texts, especially early on.
- Be the same in person. Don't flirt boldly over text and then go quiet when you meet. Say what you mean in both places.
Need fun questions to keep the chat going? Try our questions to ask anyone over text, or play a few rounds of WhatsApp dare games together.
What is a flirty thing to say to a girl?
Something honest and a little playful that shows you notice her, like telling her you look forward to her texts. Natural lines work better than pickup lines.
How do I flirt with a girl over text without being creepy?
Keep it light, match the length and tone of her replies, and never send anything sexual early on. If she stops replying or says no, respect it.
How can I make a girl blush over text?
Tell her something specific you like about her, like her laugh or the way she explains things. Honest, simple lines make girls blush more than fancy ones.
What should I text a girl to start a conversation?
Ask a fun question or mention something from her story or your last chat. Anything that gives her an easy, interesting reply works better than just hey.
How do I know if she is flirting back?
She replies quickly, asks you questions, uses playful emojis and teases you back. Short, late, one-word replies usually mean she is not interested.
Is it okay to flirt with my girlfriend?
Yes. Flirting keeps a relationship fun and makes her feel wanted, even after years together.
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